fix(user-flow): close offline-queue, export, session, ban & realtime gaps

Comprehensive user-flow review across guest/host/admin roles, then fixes with
e2e regression guards. Highlights:

- Offline upload queue auto-resumes on reconnect: network errors keep items
  pending (not error), 4xx are terminal (no infinite retry), quota exhaustion
  returns a distinct 413; queue cap + dedup.
- Export lifecycle: release atomically locks uploads; reopen invalidates and
  re-release regenerates the keepsake; workers claim their job atomically so a
  reopen->re-release can't corrupt the ZIP; startup re-spawns interrupted
  exports.
- Sessions slide on activity (no 30-day cliff); JWT expiry deferred to the
  revocable session row; sign-out-everywhere + revoke-on-PIN-reset.
- Ban always hides content (v_feed / find_visible_media / export filter
  is_banned) but stays a read-only ban per USER_JOURNEYS §10 — sessions are
  not revoked, read access + keepsake download preserved.
- Realtime: server-clock SSE delta cursor; event-closed/opened drive the UI
  live; feed_delta rate-limited; like returns {liked, like_count} to fix
  multi-device drift; lightbox live comments; diashow delta backfill.
- Forgotten-PIN in-app request flow; simultaneous same-name join returns 409;
  quota increment is transactional; operator floor.

Adds e2e/specs/10-flow-review/ (offline resume, export integrity, deterministic
anti-race guard) and updates existing specs for the new contracts.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

backend/src/error.rs

@@ -10,6 +10,10 @@ pub enum AppError {
     Conflict(String),
     /// Second field: optional retry-after seconds to include in the response.
     TooManyRequests(String, Option<u64>),
+    /// Per-user storage quota exhausted. Distinct from `TooManyRequests` (rate limit) so
+    /// the client can treat it as *terminal* (413, no retry) instead of backing off and
+    /// retrying a permanently-failing upload forever.
+    QuotaExceeded(String),
     Internal(anyhow::Error),
 }
 
@@ -22,6 +26,7 @@ impl AppError {
             Self::NotFound(_) => (StatusCode::NOT_FOUND, "not_found"),
             Self::Conflict(_) => (StatusCode::CONFLICT, "conflict"),
             Self::TooManyRequests(..) => (StatusCode::TOO_MANY_REQUESTS, "too_many_requests"),
+            Self::QuotaExceeded(_) => (StatusCode::PAYLOAD_TOO_LARGE, "quota_exceeded"),
             Self::Internal(_) => (StatusCode::INTERNAL_SERVER_ERROR, "internal_error"),
         }
     }
@@ -34,6 +39,7 @@ impl AppError {
             | Self::NotFound(msg)
             | Self::Conflict(msg) => msg.clone(),
             Self::TooManyRequests(msg, _) => msg.clone(),
+            Self::QuotaExceeded(msg) => msg.clone(),
             Self::Internal(err) => {
                 tracing::error!("internal error: {err:#}");
                 "Ein interner Fehler ist aufgetreten.".to_string()