fix(frontend): park uploads that cannot succeed, and stop two false signals

The upload queue gains `parkedFor`, so a photo rejected for a reason that cannot change on
its own stops re-pushing itself. A ban used to come back as a generic `forbidden`, which
purged the blob and moved the row to `blocked` — a terminal state with no retry button — so
lifting a ban restored everything except the photo actually in flight. Ban and release are
now distinct codes that keep the blob, charge no attempt, and tell the guest what has to
happen. `releaseResolvedParks` drains them at boot from /me/context, because the live
`user-shown` / `event-opened` events only reach a tab that was open when the host acted,
and the usual sequence is the other way round.

Two signals were firing on nothing. A filtered feed set `feedStale` on EVERY delta without
deduping — and the delta cursor boundary is inclusive while sse.ts deliberately rewinds
`lastEventTime`, so deltas routinely re-return rows already delivered. With the backstop
polling every 60-120s, a guest who tapped a hashtag got a "Neue Beiträge" pill they could
never clear, each tap costing a full filtered refetch. It now dedupes in both branches.

The SSE liveness backstop had the mirror problem: `noteDelivered` harvested id, upload_id
AND user_id from every payload, so by the time anything was deleted or anyone banned, their
ids were already marked delivered from ordinary traffic about live content. The
`deleted_ids` and `hidden_user_ids` clauses were false essentially always, leaving a
half-open socket undetected while a host moderated into a feed nobody was listening to.
Each event now records only the id its own clause tests.

Also: /admin no longer bounces to /join on a cleared session — AUTH_ROUTES had the `/admin`
prefix, which suppressed clearAuth() on the dashboard and let the login guard bounce back.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

frontend/src/lib/auth.ts

@@ -112,7 +112,7 @@ export function setAdminAuth(jwt: string, userId: string, displayName?: string):
 
 // Hook registry: cross-cutting stores (export-status, etc.) register a callback
 // here at import-time so they get reset on every clearAuth path — both the
-// explicit "Event verlassen" button and the api.ts 401 auto-clear. Keeps
+// explicit "Abmelden" button and the api.ts 401 auto-clear. Keeps
 // clearAuth the single source of truth without baking dependencies on every
 // downstream store into this module (which would create circular imports).
 const clearAuthHooks: Array<() => void> = [];