feat(eventsnap): UX review batch-3 — feed virtualization, a11y/UX fixes, shared primitives

Frontend
- Feed: DOM-windowing via @tanstack/svelte-virtual (new VirtualFeed). The window
  virtualizer keeps the sticky header, pull-to-refresh, infinite-scroll sentinel and
  bottom nav working. List = dynamic measured heights keyed by upload id +
  anchorTo:start so an SSE prepend doesn't jump a scrolled reader; grid = measured
  square rows. Drops the content-visibility band-aid and the old FeedGrid.
  measureElement(null) on row unmount prevents ResizeObserver retention; stable
  option callbacks + guarded setOptions avoid O(n) re-measure on like/comment patches.
- Global: viewport-fit=cover (activates safe-area insets), lang=de, PWA manifest +
  maskable icon + apple-touch metas, prefers-reduced-motion, safe-area-top headers.
- Feed reactivity: like/comment SSE patch the single card in place; upload-processed
  debounced in-place merge; IntersectionObserver leak fixed; shared 60s clock.
- CLS: list cards reserve the skeleton aspect box.
- Destructive actions (promote/demote/unban, gallery release) routed through
  ConfirmSheet (host + admin).
- Export OOM: streamed download via single-use ticket instead of res.blob().
- Shared primitives: IconButton (44px hit area), scrollLock action; UploadSheet a11y.
- Polish: api timeout + non-JSON guard, focus-trap offsetParent fix, pull-to-refresh
  passive:false + guards, diashow keyboard a11y, Toaster assertive errors, dark-mode
  gaps, aria-pressed on like/chip state, CameraCapture mic-on-video + retry,
  ConfirmSheet spinner, upload beforeunload warning, emoji->SVG icons.

Backend
- social.rs: like/comment SSE broadcasts now carry the fresh count so feed clients
  patch one card in place instead of refetching page 1.
- admin.rs / main.rs: supporting changes for the above.

Verified: svelte-check 0 errors, frontend build clean, /feed SSR 200. Runtime feed
scroll-feel validation still owed (documented in FOLLOWUPS.md).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

frontend/src/lib/components/Toaster.svelte

@@ -19,15 +19,17 @@
 	class="pointer-events-none fixed inset-x-0 z-[60] flex flex-col items-center gap-2 px-4"
 	style="bottom: calc(env(safe-area-inset-bottom) + 5rem)"
 	role="region"
-	aria-live="polite"
 	aria-label="Benachrichtigungen"
 	data-testid="toaster"
 >
 	{#each $toasts as t (t.id)}
+		<!-- Errors/warnings interrupt (assertive/alert); successes wait their turn (polite/status). -->
 		<button
 			type="button"
 			onclick={() => dismissToast(t.id)}
 			class="pointer-events-auto w-full max-w-sm rounded-xl px-4 py-3 text-left text-sm font-medium shadow-lg transition active:scale-[0.98] {toneClasses(t.tone)}"
+			role={t.tone === 'error' || t.tone === 'warning' ? 'alert' : 'status'}
+			aria-live={t.tone === 'error' || t.tone === 'warning' ? 'assertive' : 'polite'}
 			data-testid="toast"
 			data-toast-tone={t.tone}
 		>