feat: harden auth, shutdown, and session bundle (0.35.0)

Three features bundled into one release:

- rate-limit /auth/login, /register, /me/password (token bucket,
  5 req/sec sustained with 10-request burst by default; 429 +
  Retry-After header on hit; tracing::warn! per hit so operators
  see attack patterns; AUTH_RATE_PER_SEC / AUTH_RATE_BURST env knobs)
- handle SIGTERM for graceful container stops (replaces bare
  ctrl_c() with a select over ctrl_c + SignalKind::terminate() so
  docker compose stop runs the daemon shutdown path instead of
  letting Chromium leak past SIGKILL)
- clear session.user on 401 from any API call (setOn401Hook in
  api/client.ts, registered from session.svelte.ts gated on
  $app/environment::browser so the SSR bundle never installs it;
  fixes "logged in but no bookmarks/collections" mid-session
  expiry state)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

.env.example

@@ -39,6 +39,13 @@ COOKIE_DOMAIN=
 # get reaped lazily.
 SESSION_TTL_DAYS=30
 
+# ----- Auth brute-force rate limits -----
+# Token-bucket budget shared across /auth/login, /auth/register, and
+# /auth/me/password. Set per_sec=0 to disable (e.g. behind a
+# rate-limiting reverse proxy that already enforces a budget).
+AUTH_RATE_PER_SEC=5
+AUTH_RATE_BURST=10
+
 # ----- CORS -----
 # Comma-separated origins allowed to call the API with credentials.
 # Default is empty: same-origin only. Set when frontend and backend live